Your usual starting point
See whether you lead with a point, a connection or a question.
When you explain an idea, make a request or join a conversation, what comes first: a clear point, a connection with the person or a question that opens up the topic?
A useful conversation needs both a message and a listener. Explore what you usually prioritise, then try a small adjustment in your next conversation.
See whether you lead with a point, a connection or a question.
Notice what another person may need alongside your preferred approach.
Use a specific suggestion in your next request, explanation or discussion.
You can be direct, supportive and curious in the same conversation. This test compares the approach you would choose first in 12 situations.
State the main point and make the next action clear.
Attend to the other person and build mutual understanding.
Ask questions and explore meanings before settling on an answer.
Each choice adds two points to one approach. The percentages show the share of situations in which you chose it, not how skilled you are at communicating.
This original BrainApps questionnaire explores three ways of communicating in everyday situations. See what you tend to lead with and how to adapt your approach to the conversation.
There is no winning style here. A clear request, attentive listening and a useful question can each help in different moments.
No. It summarises the approaches you chose in these situations. Clear communication also depends on listening, context and practice.
Yes. Roles, familiarity and the purpose of a conversation can change your first move. Answer with your usual everyday pattern in mind.
Read both descriptions. You could state your main point and then ask how the other person sees it, rather than choosing only one approach.
Answer 12 situations and choose one habit to practise.